Many of you guys wanted that I should spill the beans about me... Many of you guys without trying to know me got busy in maligning my image when I declared my relationship status with my girl on facebook...
though I wanted to name and bash them up..but I guess they might have no other work than bitching around and many of them boasted that they heard how a jerk I am but they havn't visited my blog yet...as it was not standard or is abusive....lol
So I thought why not give a proper introduction of me...
My name is Sourish Karmakar, age 26 and quite moody.
I don't like visiting trash blogs and following them up only to increase my follower count
I am not a girl so sure I don't have sniffers around me waging their tails
I am not jobless so I don't go to individuals and bitch around
I am in facebook ..I am a loved moderator of a community over 5000 guys..I have got 3490 frnds in FB..and most of them had a chat with me one or many times and most of them are my clan members of mafia wars that I indulge the most there
Apart from that...
I am in blogger for more than many of you...and I am quite habituated of handling jerks who don't have any life other than go bitch to my girl or frnds of my girl..so if u need a war...come face to face rather than having long conversation about me behind my back
If u r so concerned about the future of my girl..
then u should know...
I have got degrees more than you and any time can beat u if u wanna compare my scorecards with ya..
I am doing Doctoral studies...if u need to know whether my girl's future is safe with me...
I can do wateva you guys think U can do better than me...believe me I can bring u a lot of endorsements if u need
I was loved and being loved by all my juniors and seniors in all my years straight from school to college
For any other info...come straight to me rather than talking behind my back to my girl to back down... I will be glad to clear ur info about me...
At least now u know two thing straight...First...that I don't give a damn how popular u r and how many close frnds u got who won't come to my blog ever or write bashing posts about me..coz I blog for me and wateva readers I have I am damn sure they won't leave me ever...
and I guess now u know the second...that I don't like people talking about me behind my back...and next time I will name u straight rather than writing a general post ..so that people can know what a jerk u can be to gain a little popularity...
See..I can be harsh even with out the F words that I am accused of using more than often...but just to be clear that I am not pretentious like you...who live a dual life just only to have a fake popularity in virtual world which u never got in real life..I am so sure about that ...........
PS: This post is all for those morons who think they can bitch around about me unnoticed .. and I apologize to my readers if any time they felt offended..
You know I don't mind you using my name in this post though I never called you a jerk but I expressed my genuine concern about Preeti's future and happiness, I mistakenly thought that as a friend I had such a right so I fit into your category of jerks, morons and whatever else you mentioned here.
ReplyDeleteI do not get actually what you meant by this post. What's the point of it? To call people who care about that girl and show some concern because they love her jerks? You managed it successfully. To prove that you are better than them? You failed miserably.
Conclusions here? Not a single one. Hence I am out. Wish you guys a happy life though.
PS: I commented only so that you would not say am bitching behind your back
hmm...quite a strong answer to the ppl who are more bothered abt whats happening in other's life. hope ppl who this post was intended for got the msg.
ReplyDeleteDear Lena...
ReplyDeletefst of all what my intention were .. 1) The post was about all those who called names...
2) It was not for those who showed a genuine concern but what I got ..whoever showed... it was ego there first and concern came last to justify the ego..
3) Secondly if someone don't know me ..he or she doesn't have any right to come barging to my girl telling her to stay away from me calling me an abusive jerk.
4)Wateva name I heard from my girl it was indeed shocking that they can have such low opinion when i know what there true intentions were while maligning me like an example....
That day when I declared my status with her.. she was all sad because her dear frnds were angry because they came to know from somebody else who happened to be in her account first... just to clear the air.. she wanted to tell u guys but she was out of words for the explanation of circumstances ...and I was the one who decalred it first..and like a love u can't actually reject when sumbody whom u love declare that he loves u...so she just accepted ..it was me who published it but facebook has it's policy of declaration... I was going to write to you when I heard ur indifference to her about not telling u first...but later I heard u guys actually made me a jerk to hide that ur ego got hurt of getting the late info...so indirectly u guys made me a scapegoat ..so who gave u that right?????? Secondly I heard the name of a guy who was filling in the missing infos about my bad character to ya girls more than once... who gave him that right... ??? concern for u or concern for her..when my girl says she don't know him well..who gave him that right to talk about me.... ????
just to move on with infos...
I so agree that u didn't called me a jerk...because she confirmed it too..so why u took this post on u... secondly u have every right to express ur concern to her.. but I thought u were my frnd too...so u go to a dearer frnd to tell him to stay away from another frnd...or may be I am just a blogger to u who comes to ur blog and u followed the appeasement policy to continue ur readership...if u never liked me or my blog...u could have told me..how should I take that someone I know is also talking behind my back... ??? don't u call it backstabbing...
I know u won't come to my blog ever...but I should say to you clearly that it won't hurt me much when I will compare it with what u thought u can do and getaway....
And to the answer of that question... that what I wanted to prove here...
I wanted to prove that I am a human being and I have my tolerance limit when I hear how half of the blogger world who don't know me are making opinions about me....
and better them or not..I am not a Gandhian ...if someone slaps me ..I slap them back harder but like them I don't start fights....
Hope I cleared my views...
It was nice to know you...and believe me I loved ur blog...and there I read once... to fall in love u should not think of consequences..i guess u write what u don't practice...though it is not unusual..half of the world do that only...
take care and like wise stay happy...
Ria..
ReplyDeleteI hope so.. and I so hope u didn't felt offended anywhere in this or my previous posts...
i dont know wat to say bro...i was more then happy to see ur relationship status even mailed u and preetz also...i am still very happy for both of u...my love support always there...no one will give u names dude...just dont what else to say...i am sort of confused y this is happening...
ReplyDeleteurs..hemu..
Hemanth..
ReplyDeleteAs I said..none of my frnds were unhappy.. and u r my frnd.. don't take it on urself as i know u were amazed urself.. but it was pleasing amazed not what others made it ..
but calling names was also happening...so needed to reply back...
oh ho, rada chal raha hai yahan to..
ReplyDeleteanyway i hope things will get better sooner.. gd luck
you guys should clear out first who said what to whom and under what circumstances instead of bitching about us behind our backs. Does not make you be any different other than we are.
ReplyDeleteIf you are so sensitive to people talking about you and your relationship, it is your problem, do not make it ours. We did not do anything wrong here.
And you know what? Dont you think it is weird that your girl did not find enough courage to tell her friends about her relationship directly? Should give you food for thought.
Anyways, with that post and with that comment you said more that you intended to say, for you and for her.
Happy to see that the meaning of friendship does not exist in this world when love appears
Have a happy life, guys!
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ReplyDeletebhai kisne kaha aap ko aisa???
ReplyDeleteek awaz to do band baja k rakh denge....aur jo log utla seedha bolte hai THEY CAN'T EVER KNOW WHAT MY BRO IS AND WHAT HE CAN DO? ONCE THEY KNOW THEY WILL FLUSH THEMSELVES OFF
aur daroo peene k liye indra ya ahar vihar... waha ka mausam hi alag hota hai ;)
Sense...
ReplyDeletelol... thx for the goodluck :D
Lena
ReplyDeletelol...Now u r blaming me ??? so u guys will say wateva u like to her and if she tells me then we are bitching... lol.. ok ok !!! if that makes u happy... I am really ROTF laughing =))
about food for thought..
I know the circumstances well... and now I can see it LIVE why she was so reluctant to disclose...
Meaning of Friendship:D...
all of my friends were ecstatic hearing me in relation but those of my girl's are accusing her of bitching..I wonder why is that.. that should give u a food for thought
but seriously ur reply made me laugh...god bless u for that ... :D
Reetesh...
ReplyDeletelol...main yeh ladai sambhal loonga bhai...orkut mein in jaise maine hazaar dekhe hai... har kahani mein apne aapko na ghusaye toh neend nhi aati...problem yehi hai ki ab tak in logo ko kisi ne kuch kaha nhi na.. so sar par chadh gaye hai...
sure ...daroo wohi Indra mein hi piyenge..waise main aur chopi ..yelchiko bhi gaye they..waha bhi mast mahual hai darro peene ka :D
I was not offended in any sense coz i belong to the list of happy friends who r happy abt the fact that u r in love. :) So chill!!
ReplyDeleteYou know.. i am in a been there done that situation.
ReplyDeleteThe point is when 2 people make a couple, everyone wants to contribute their bit to it. Be it concerns, advices, and if nothing else, they want to share something juicy (real or imaginary) about the past/present of the other person.. its all about giving their share of contribution right?
I think you did a good job by slamming such people openly. If i was there in ur shoes, i would have slammed people openly by taking their names directly.
In the initial stages of a relationship, the thread of love is very brittle, and it barely takes up the load of the new circumstances, and such gossipy people do no good in strengthening it.
So good work!
Ria...
ReplyDeletethanx so much... u know the line u said meant a lot to me...
Abhishek
ReplyDeletelol
A really nice angle to have from ya... contribution... yeah like jus to make the other feel..he see i am there too ...
I couldn't have said this better...
and I know hum singles ko jab bhi koi milti hai...jupiter mein jwalamukhi phoot ta hai :D
and thx for the endorsement...I needed to make them know that I am not spineless and can bang them anytime I like...
ur comment surely gave a lot of positivity over here.....
ooo bro elchicko bhi chalenge :D,...
ReplyDeletedont wry ;)
abhi FB pe kab add karna hai meri req padi hai aap k home page pe aur mafia me bhi add kaun karega TERA CHACHA :P :D
and dont wry bro.... i m with u always :)
Im doing my rounds today in Blogville, after a very long time. And it seems ur not in a very good mood right now. This post suggests that Blogville crap will never END hehe. u know, ppl telling ur like this and ur like that, just by reading a post or 2 of ur's :) It so rings the bell.
ReplyDeleteBut why would u even try to explain urself to the whole world? Don't get into that habit. u shouldnt hv to explain urself to anyone, as long as u know who u r.
Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to u bro! Stay happy.
ciao til next time...TC
Keshi.
Reetes..
ReplyDeletegot a plan change... ghar walon ne emergency mein bulaya hai... see kya hoyega... :|
Sissyy
ReplyDeleteppl talking behind my back about my blog or me ..it ain't that a pain...but trying to break my relationship by question my authenticity is quite different.. so needed to reply that it is not tolerable at all...
rest all.. I agree there is no use of self promotion here...but needed to tell them in harshest yet mild way that to back off..
good to see u after so many days...
merry christmas and happy new year...